Many people think that there is only one way to have sex pleasurably: standing, with your partner behind you. However, this couldn’t be further from the truth! There are SO many different ways to have sexual intercourse — and not all of them involve being on top. Check out these 9 positions and see which ones work best for you and your partner — and best allow for a really big penis!
The Classic Standing Position
This is the most popular position among couples because it’s the most basic and straightforward. One person lies on the bed while the other penetrates from behind. It doesn’t get more simple than that!
This position is suitable for anyone, regardless of their penis size. You don’t need to be a certain height or have access to certain parts of the bed to enjoy it. It gets the job done and doesn’t require any special equipment.
Doggy Style
This one is fairly self-explanatory: one person lays on their back with their legs in the air while the other person penetrates them from the side. The name comes from the position of the dogs when they are mating — legs up in the air, facing each other. This position is best for when you want your partner to feel more vulnerable and exposed, as they are on their back with their legs in the air. It can also be used when one person wants to feel more dominated during sex.
This position is considered safer for the women, especially if they are on their back. They can keep their legs in the air and put their arms around their partner to keep them close. They cannot, however, control the speed of the sex in this position (also known as “riding”). This position is most beneficial when used with a strap-on. The added weight of the dildo will increase the strength of the thrusting and allow for deeper penetration. This can be quite the workout for the penis!
Face-to-Face
In this position, one person faces their partner while lying on their back or stomach. The other person then proceeds to have sex with them, either while laying on their back or stomach or, more typically, while lying on their front. This is a great way to take advantage of the extra space! It’s very close to the “standing” position, but with more room for movement.
Face-to-Face is also ideal if one person wants to feel more connected to their partner while having sex. They can look into each other’s eyes and feel more intimate. The extra space also provides the opportunity to try new things, whether it’s kissing or exploring each other’s bodies. This position can feel more connected and passionate than any other.
Masturbation
This one is for the more experienced or dare I say, adventurous folks out there! In this position, one person lies on their back with their legs raised, and the other person masturbates them. Sounds like something we would see in a porno, right?
The fun fact is that this position can actually be used to better advantage when done solo. If you are feeling particularly creative, you can raise one leg at a time while using your other hand to massage your genitals. Doing this just before you come can help lead to more intense orgasms! Trying new things is half the fun of sex, and masturbation is one of the best ways to do that. Besides, the position puts both partners in a good position to satisfy each other’s needs.
Hooded Sister
Here’s another variation on the “stoopie” position, but with a twist! One person lies on their back with their legs raised, and the other person lies on top of them, facing the ceiling. The domineering partner takes the oral role, with the submissive partner acting as their mouthpiece. This position allows for deeper penetration than most others because the domineering partner can place their entire shaft inside their partner. It also provides the unique opportunity to watch TV or listen to music while having sex! (Yes, I’m sure some of you reading this have a special place in your hearts for the Oral Roberts University Choir and especially for the song “It’s My Pleasure.”)
This is a fairly dominant position, in which the submissive partner is completely at the whim of their partner. They can feel very vulnerable and exposed, but that is part of the fun. This position can also be quite strenuous, causing blood to rush to the surface and into the penis, which can temporarily enlarge it. There is also a chance of injuring yourself during sex if you are not careful enough. This position is most suitable for when one person is significantly larger than the other, or if the larger person wants to show off their size.
Reverse Cowgirl
Here’s another position that involves putting your partner in the cowgirl position (girl on top) but instead of having her straddle you, you have her lie on her back with her legs elevated. From there, you enter her from behind and thrust into her. This pushes her body backwards, taking her hindquarters with her. This is not for the faint of heart or for people with backs that are not flexible enough to handle this position naturally.
The Reverse Cowgirl position is a fair bit of work for the male anatomy, especially if you are not used to it. It puts a lot of strain on the lower back, and it’s easy for the person being penetrated to feel trapped. As you are thrusting, you will likely hit some nerve endings that cause a sensation similar to that of having a mini-earthquake inside you. This position can also cause injuries, especially if used incorrectly or if you are not flexible enough to avoid hitting your head on the bed frame. Make sure to use a couple of spare pairs of underwear to keep things from getting…uh… interesting under the covers!
Sissy Squeeze
Speaking of things getting interesting…this position is for people who love a little pain along with their pleasure! One person lies on their back with their legs raised, and the other person, who is the dominant partner, squeezes their thighs together, applying pressure to the genitals. This position provides the unique opportunity to feel the pain of climax with every thrust. I’m sure there is something in the Bible about the wages of sin, but for the moment, let’s just say that you will not go to heaven if you try this one out!
This is a fairly aggressive position, in which the person being dominated feels as though their body is on fire. It will put an aggressive twist on your typical “standing” position, making it more strenuous for the person on the bottom. The person being dominated can also apply pressure to the areas of their body that they feel needs the stimulation, allowing for deeper penetration. It should also be noted that if the person on the top is not careful enough, they can apply internal injuries from prolonged pressure. Make sure to use a couple of spare pairs of underwear to keep things from getting…uh…interesting under the covers!
Scissor
This is one of the most basic and straightforward positions of sex: two people lie on their backs, with one person’s feet on the other person’s shoulders. The people in the scissor position need to be at least a certain height to enjoy the view, as they are facing each other. This is the ultimate way to bring out the best in each other, as neither partner has dominance over the other. It is an excellent way to feel empowered in your sexuality and to bring your A game!
The Scissor position is good for people who want to spice things up a little bit. Instead of just one person lying on their back, the other person can lay on their stomach or side. This changes the dynamics of the sex significantly. It also provides the opportunity to try out some new positions, as the other person is more likely to be on their side or stomach rather than their back. This makes it easier to switch positions and to try different things in the sex session.
Girl on Top
This position is pretty self-explanatory: one person lies on their back with their legs raised, and the other person mounts them from the side. The girl on top position is ideal if one person wants to feel more vulnerable and exposed, as they are on their back with their legs in the air. It can also be used when one person wants to feel more dominated during sex. Standing above your partner, looking down, provides a wonderful perspective and gives you total control over the depth of your penetration.